South African gospel singer and pastor Khaya Mthethwa has once again found himself at the center of public discussion after comments he made during a church service recently went viral. The singer and spiritual leader told his congregation that he is no longer interested in marriage, stating, “I’m tired of losing great people now I only attract rubbish. The marriage train left me a long time ago.”
His remarks have sparked mixed reactions online. While some sympathized with what appeared to be a moment of emotional honesty, others viewed the statement as dismissive and lacking accountability. One X (formerly Twitter) user commented, “So he doesn’t think he might be the problem?” Another added, “There’s a reason pastors are held to a higher standard. Certain things you should not say for the sake of the flock you lead.”
Past Relationships in the Spotlight
Mthethwa’s romantic history has long been a topic of public interest. He was previously married to former Miss South Africa Ntandoyenkosi Kunene. The two married in 2017 after a brief courtship and welcomed a son in 2019. However, their marriage ended in divorce just two years later. Mthethwa later opened up about experiencing depression during the time, revealing that he struggled with the emotional toll of the breakup.
Before his marriage, he was in a relationship with actress Nomzamo Mbatha. Though the details of their split remain private, it was widely speculated in entertainment media at the time.
Allegations and Public Scrutiny
In addition to the backlash surrounding his recent remarks, Mthethwa has also been the subject of various online allegations. Notably, entertainment commentator Musa Khawula has claimed that Mthethwa was involved in inappropriate relationships with women from his church. However, these allegations remain unverified, and it’s important to note that Khawula himself is facing multiple legal issues, including charges of crimen injuria and a pending murder case.
Mthethwa has publicly denied claims of infidelity during his marriage to Kunene, responding to social media speculation by saying, “It is so unlike you to speak about things you know nothing about.” He has emphasized that co-parenting and healing have been priorities in his personal journey.
A Broader Conversation
This recent controversy opens up broader conversations around emotional transparency, accountability, and the expectations placed on public figures especially those in spiritual leadership. While some view Mthethwa’s comments as an expression of frustration or emotional pain, others believe they could be harmful or dismissive, particularly to women who have been part of his life.
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